Titel Image: by Olad Aden, Berlin 2017
Poliana Baumgarten and Elif Kücük produced this short documentary about Black Lives Matter in Germany for ze.tt.
It is going to be published on Saturday, November 3rd.I didn’t see anything of it yet. But since I know that there are some people who think that Black Lives Matter Berlin is part of a big organization and somewhat fanchised or exported from the United States – or that other people might have a different impression of what is actually going on but are also questioning – I’d like to serve some realness right now.
Please notice that this is just my personal perspective on things and that I write that after a long day of learning how to code. Also, I write in English because this is the language I feel most comfortable to use when I need to articulate myself, speaking on issues that are very much emotionally draining and hit close to home. My first language is German though, so I might translate this when I find some time later…
Six women founded Black Lives Matter Berlin (BLMB) for you, for us, Black people in Berlin, Germany – to make ourselves visible, to connect our various communities and form a strong group of this society to make a change. What a powerful idea right? As a matter of fact 4 of 6 women left the team after the protest in 2017 to focus on their own lives again.
It would have been easy to channel the energy that we created and the people we reached with #BLMMonth2017 to become part of the movement. But right at the point when this could have happened the feminist women*s collective felt apart.
I remember M. and I sitting in her kitchen shaking our heads. Now I was the only Black person in our Black Lives Matter Berlin Chapter…
When you realize your project is a lot bigger than you, that’s a beautiful place to be. But when you realize that the so-called „community“ you thought of as a foundation is gone as soon as the party is over – that is a very painful and lonely place to be.
In July 2017 my Grandma died. I had to quit my job in August because I was not able to bare the emotional/mental stress of working 40 hours a week – on top of my grief – at a company where I was not just the only Black person on the team but the only person of color in an all-white, all-cis, 100%heteronormative™ company. On top of that the AfD was elected to the top 3 political parties in Germany and CNN published a video that made very clear that Black people are still tortured, raped and sold into slavery in Libya. Of course none of my fellow coworkers gave a shit about that.
Afraid of drowning in my sadness I focused on BLMB more than ever. This work was unpaid and overwhelming but It made me feel like I wasn’t as powerless in the midst of it all. I was trying to keep myself busy.
Eventually D. became a new member and J. came back to the team. So we had more regular meetings again and were able to (re)act again.
In December it was actually my goal to join forces with other self-organized groups of the Black community to build an alliance against the devastating situation of refugees in Libya and racist European migration laws. But none of them replied to my call for action. Berlin Winter + Two weeks before Christmas = Bad Timing
When M., J. and I tried to organize at least a standing protest and some live music by ourselves, some activists and supporters of Gerhard-Hauptmann-Schule in Kreuzberg reached out us. We managed to organize a small protest against the eviction of the school in January 2018 and tried to recruit more people to become part of BLMB by announcing a public meeting around the same time. A small number of people came to march with us and in fact only 8 people attended our meeting the other day.
One week before that I had a mental breakdown. To be honest I don’t know why I didn’t stop right there. I guess the reason was that at the time my activism was everything I had and I was afraid to face my grief.
I lost almost everything that meant something to me in 2017 – not only one of my mothers, also my best friend, my longtime romantic partner and my source of income. If I would have given up on BLMB too, there would have been nothing left that mattered to me. I was depressed and suicidal.
But I was not the only one in the team who was struggling to stay alive. While the AfD was voted into German parliament as the 3rd biggest (racist fascist neo-liberal) party in power we all had to fight and lost many battles in our personal lives too. There was death, there was illness, there were brake ups… everyone was just exhausted. I remember talking to M. on the phone for hours… I remember tears, lots of tears. But in her words „Giving up is not an option.“ It wasn’t, not at the time.
Later in 2018 when A. and L. joint the team we add up to six members again. Without them and the support of everyone who volunteered this year’s protest probably would not have been possible. Still I have to admit that BLMB consumed all my energy with almost no return this year. Retrospectively I think, with this small team of six people, minimal resources and no funds we are not able to help anyone, not even ourselves.
A. left Berlin in August to study in Portugal and L. works in Paris most days if the week. J. left the group right after the protest and so did I. Again 4 of 6 people dropped out. Now D. is the only Black person left in the core team…
It is what it is. After all the trying, the disappointment, the losses and burn outs i lost my vision. No longer can I believe that collectivism is possible in a society that raised us based on ego, capital and consumerism. Currently I think there are two types of people: Those who give their everything: time, energy, sleep, care, thoughts, ideas, skills – and those who don’t. The first type of people, those are „care givers“ and mostly they’ve been socialised as female. I don’t want to talk about the other group right now, but especially if you do not identify as care giver listen!
We could just all carry a little bit instead of putting it all on just a few shoulders but for some reason that is exactly the theory that this community (same as this whole fucking society) is unable to turn into actions.
Oppressed people do carry the burden to fight their opposition and privileged people will never feel the need to do that due to their privilege. Fact. The more privileges you have the less you have the need to fight for those who don’t. Fact. Yes, there are Black people in Germany who actually need to and have to fight for THEIR lives, for their humanity, for basic human and civil rights. There are also people who don’t have the privilege of citizenship or the privilege of a degree that is seen as valid to fit into the German system. There are people who don’t have a job thus cannot become a part of this society because they don’t have the right to work in this country and some who are disabled to do so in other ways.
My aim was always to use my privileges to build structures that are useful for people who don’t have the same access to shit. But especially this year, I realized we didn’t do that with BLMB. Instead we curated an interesting cultural and intellectual monthlong program and organized a beautiful day with amazing key notes and live music.
Please don’t get me wrong, self-organized community spaces like that are very important to heal and to empower each other but several points were missing:
1. materialist criticism
3. knowledge of self.
*What about„by any means necessary“? I do miss that state-of-mind that. From my point of view, is absolutely necessary – not only to get a seat on the table but to flip that fucking table upside down for all of us.
I take a step back now – to reflect and recharge and to find out where to go from here. I‘m not longer part of the core team but I’m still with the cause of #BlackLivesMatter. Even though I know that I‘m not the only one who is leaving I have to and I have to remind myself every day that it is ok.
May be there will be no Black Lives Matter Berlin next year. But if that would be the case and there are actually not enough people who want to be part of a movement or form a community and fight together, then may be Germany is not ready for such a movement right now.
„Without community, there is no liberation.“Audre Lorde